This is the phrase I wanted to use last week, but since we were in the atmosphere of love, not indifference.
As we saw, humans evolved (According to the views Humberto Maturana's ) for coexistence rather than for survival. The mandate says that we want to look biological.
mentioned to us: "ask ourselves where we've got a life" . That means, as I have often mentioned in this blog, you have to turn inward us and find those things that make us suffer, that cause us fear, anger or anxiety.
All our needs are not met, when we analyze and back and back, sure we reach a point where we recognize that what was needed was love, for example, a woman who is angry and in your anger passes scolding her children and even the dog, when he finally decides to settle down and recap, most likely reach the point where you feel you are angry for having discussed with her husband, puts it this bad, so much to turn their anger and upset in the least harm should even that will hurt future chains of love.
must take into account something, we are now adults and to discover those spaces of indifference " it is the duty staff to work on them to find ways to fill them. Nobody has come to fill those spaces, we should not manipulate anyone to devote to do our job.
Well, I hope we start this week to find more healthy ways to fill our spaces disaffection.
soon as I send a big hug.
Source: Psychologies Magazine
Mexico. No. 15 January 2010.
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