Hello everyone
like every Sunday I'm here has been possible to write with a great pleasure to share all these new ideas and concepts that have come into my life and those who helped me find my inner peace. I especially delighted that the previous entry has been so visited. I thank you all enough.
Well, back to our business, I put on the table the following sentence: Save
Resentment is like drinking poison ... and wait for another death. (Wow, strong, right?)
This issue of resentments came as 15 years or more to my life, but, as hard to be phased out. It was the first 2 issues that I heard about a Salvador Valadez in his lectures. In fact, what I'm writing today is inspired by him and that I transcribe here.
Resentment is the ability to develop human beings to relive the past in the present and again to suffer like I was going. resentments are negative, positive memories that we have the memories.
The resentment only hurts the person feels, not that it causes, that person often does not even know what caused it. Sometimes, he did not intentionally and the other person is deeply resented.
The resentment we feel:
- Do not fix anything.
- No change to the person who provokes in me.
- Do not make me a better person.
- Do not make me happy.
- not remedy the conflict.
- Only the most disturbed and cloudy.
"I WILL NEVER FORGIVE ..." Salvador says, "Hey, you know that this autojodiendo" (pardon the word, but I'm quoting someone else)
resentments have several presentations, quoting a few: Blood, someone who did harm to our parents, we resent him as well. BY DATE: And that was June 27, 1975 when all that trouble broke out and he broke the door, which by the way, I have not managed ... Photographic memory: and he wore the gaudy green shirt so many times I said that he looked bad. (Conveniently suffered quite forgetful, especially when it is causing damage)
usually resentful person likes to play the role of "victim" , the poor girl who always gets injured by acts of others. The "victims" are people in the long run to be rubbing the mistakes of others on their faces, they become even more destructive than the person who made the original injury, and will ultimately cause people to stay away from them and be left alone ...
If I'm bitter, I'm bad physically and emotionally that you dare to harm me, of course, damage not approve and for which I suffer, but then, I give permission to permanently damage my resentment.
Well, if you have a solution to this issue of resentment in them can help us very much the emotional detachment of which I have already entries in this blog, and also, a process of forgiveness, which I like to talk later.
And I hope I can discuss some resentment that have passed and we can set a good example of things which was not worth it caught us both.
I send "a big hug"
Sources:
Salvador Valadez Conference of Al-anon.
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