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Coming Out O ... FREEDOM TO EXIST

Mas de la page Alva Gina





Why you say that you are transsexual?

Can not close the mouth so no one notices?

Are you going to complicate life with what you do in bed?

"You will not be just a sissy! ?





Let me explain ...

reveal why you should prudently our transsexuality
Why do not we stay in the closet and avoid problems
why you should be
ourselves why we should not hide



Truth be told, the value of exit closet is not an issue that many people think. At its deepest level, coming out has nothing to do with being part of a community of transsexuals, is not a matter of changing points of view or theory and is not an issue that motivates us to address socio-cultural changes. We must not forget that we are transsexuals only until the end of the transition and we must be clear that coming out is just a matter of personal worth.

Our culture still spends a sea of \u200b\u200benergy in condemning the differences and being "queer" in particular. From school consistent use of terms like "fags", "butch" and "sex change" create primary currents of opinion and introduce fear and rejection deep in all children. This outrageous scale unimaginable heights up to the present day discriminatory violence affecting almost every aspect of our lives.

is in this toxic environment with varying degrees of condemnation overt and covert, that the transsexual is subjected to constant psychological and emotional attack. This attack is internalized by several degrees from an early age and very easily. The transsexual is not only affected by the avalanche from the outside, but is poisoned from within and accumulating guilt, fears and feelings of self-destruction, which lead to constant pain and in many cases to suicide.

creates a vicious circle is derived cultural pressure, sustained by a state of guilt that is internalized along with the pain and fear, as a cultural message, which becomes part of the consciousness of the transsexual, preventing him from overcoming fear of rejection and self-condemning their needs be herself, hiding. In doing so the tranny reinforces their feelings almost neurotic and attaches to the cultural pressure closing the circle that will be with for life if not broken. Coming out is to stop living in hiding and break the vicious cycle of pressure on our existence

We live in a culture focused on our family and friends, and human interaction. The basis of our daily communication is about of our lives and relationships. The tranny in the closet has only two paths, constantly lying about his life or to avoid any form of human communication that may compromise socially. Over time this causes varying degrees of suffering, is lost from the pleasure of communicating to be loved the joy of living a new day, to tell you something funny that happened or share new experiences. It silenced the simple but significant things of everyday life. This self-censorship destroys the soul and leads to confusion and depression.

When we decided to come out is to tell the world the wonders of being transgender is simply to stop the continuing minimization and cutting of our existence. We left the closet to save the feelings and core values \u200b\u200bof every human being, dignity, self esteem, freedom to talk and share, the freedom to be, the ability to communicate, to communicate about our lives in an honest and real, without subterfuge, without fear of being discovered and shame, just like everyone else. These are the clearest reason to come out.

The raison d'être of this website is that the author decided he was tired and ill shut up, tired of the pain of remaining silent and hiding, worrying endlessly to avoid accidental discoveries about your condition, tired of the constant terror of unforgivable that someone knew my secret all this glut is impossible to bring back, living like a ghost, seeking constant invisibility and self-fulfillment and one half only on the margins of my social environment. All this is over.

have to look at concepts such as, why is unforgivable our "secret"? Why is unforgivable to be transsexual? Why is shameful and frightening?.

Many in our culture and society have serious problems with the fact transsexual. Some people feel very high levels of rejection towards transsexualism, some people do not want to know anything about the subject of transsexuality or understanding and less involved in transsexual's suffering. There are narrow-minded beings who do not accept the fact transsexual coined as a perversion and there are those who would like to see dead to all transsexuals.

fact may have serious consequences for a transsexual audience, but for all transsexual should be clear that, for absolute existential transsexualism produces serious disturbances in the common people, that we put into evidence by a disturbance of the rules fundamental underlying the deepest concepts of being human.

But even considering all the "dangers" cultural and social, there is a point where the cowardice ends and where the car cover and constant depression become unbearable and we need to claim for the rights of freedom enjoyed by other human beings simply the freedom to exist as I am. Coming out

serves to break the vicious cycle of torment and self-condemnation, destroys the necessity of living a lie, is an act of freedom of those who refuses to live in darkness and stands as a person, with the natural and basic right to exist. Is freedom against oppression and as such is not easy and can cost you, but you should get out of the closet to stop the insufferable, self-esteem and achieve a normal human being.

As I said before, we must go out with prudence, not cultural or social cause fractures, but you have to leave, only to find peace and exist, only to be present in this world. Gina

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One issue that touches all of us and no doubt where they may have different views. Actually I am very encouraged to write about it because, besides touching me deeply in the network have not found much, nay almost nothing, so momentous point in the life of any human being and therefore of every woman, in this case, transsexual woman.

transsexual women to love is not far from what it is for the majority without however, we usually do not forget our hard early years and the first sacrifice of love that we do. Girls when we realize who we really are and are suspicious of the injury and the disappointment that can lead to the first people who really love our family. We decided to make our first resignation. Very strong because a waiver is to stop being ourselves so that other people feel satisfied and proud of what we are not and do not get hurt, and that, only we do for love ...

then continue with the sacrifice for many years that seem endless, like the other girls see their bodies develop in adolescence and how they can live their femininity with peace and quiet and we, remain silent, for love. Since very children we are aware that it is love that moves the world and learn to give love to give, even knowing that we will not get what we expect.

When transsexual woman manages to take control of their lives and many years may never recover, however, carries this burden on the shoulders and quietly, out of love.

There are many cases like mine, where the lack of information makes us think we can fight against something that is inevitable, we achieved the best performances, because at times we deceive ourselves, and make mistakes. Unfortunately, sometimes there are people leaving wounds in the process, because of our ignorance and that is a burden that we must learn to lead. In these cases it is more difficult to bear the weight of love. To love truth, without restriction and with all our heart as the inquisitive woman social viewpoint and not just judge us away, we branded as selfish when all you want is to live normally and enjoy the beautiful feelings that we can feeling. About

romantic love.

Many people confuse us and have the wrong perspective that a transsexual woman is in itself a friend of promiscuity and / or life easy or dark. Nothing more false. We women usually keep transgender what might be called a "low profile" in our interpersonal relationships as the ideal complement to our change is precisely to achieve not draw attention to what went before, why do strenuous efforts to "go unnoticed." To that, we call it success. For the true transsexual, there is no greater triumph than to achieve a life in communion body-soul-mind in our female role and inserted at 100% in normal community life and our social environment, labor and even family.

Obviously, if you already familiar with the other articles of this page, the brain of every woman transsexual does not differ much (in reality) of the brain biological women, making it is not difficult to assume that our way of seeing any point related to the theme of romantic love, and our feelings, perceptions, thoughts, ambitions, etc. are entitled to nearly the same.

are closely linked to the topic question that I have done more than once and is as follows: the SRS is gravitating in relationship to a transsexual woman?. I think so, and no. How we know, the SRS genital reassignment surgery does not change the sex of the people, but if you correct the disparity body-soul-mind for transsexual women. For a real woman SRS tranny is a solution of life, but that the search for sexual pleasure or function 100% female intimacy, do not forget that the vast majority of transsexuals are celibate and reassigned within the remaining group, as in any human group, there are people who might choose homosexual relationships (meaning, transsexual and biological woman) do not forget that transsexual women have the same range of possibilities that any biological woman in relation to family issues. On the other hand there are a number of transsexuals reassigned to continue to life together with their former wives in his life "masculine" and maintain a relationship that could be considered lesbian or platonic.

There are also transgender women who opt for heterosexual relationship. In my view, a behavior that may be more logical. In many cases, relationships are initiated without the male partner know the truth about the past male and female part that this could lead to the breakup of the relationship and causes fear in many cases, hidden this truth. This would only be possible if women really transsexual absolutely broken with its past.

In other cases it is precisely the male partner who requested and supported the reallocation of transsexual partner, which is an invaluable support for those who will be resigned and would mean that the actual search for both will end communion is achieved when mind-soul-body.

Woman transsexual love and is a person accustomed to give, to give, so it's not hard to love for women like us. Our mind and soul of a woman he loves and dreams in the same way as a biological woman can do.

do we expect from our partners? ... who can receive the love that we offer, like any man / woman (as applicable) receive the love of a woman. You know us to feel that love is worth a woman he loves. We hope to find companionship and a partner of life. Nothing more ...


transsexual woman waiting for her partner only love, Nothing more and nothing less than love, many people confuse us with the easy life lovers may think that our interest does not go beyond to achieve economic stability and family and that is another of the great myths associated with the stability and transgender transsexual women has been forged in years of internal struggle to survive in conditions more severe than the common "good call" normal people, people are accustomed to fighting and stability is usually something that comes with us when we face the world, and we assume say our truth.

is undeniable that most transsexual women lived at first in the most absolute secrecy, and only chose to begin our hormonal treatments reassignment and once we are well established in the world economically independent as it is the only way to achieve better results without having to answer to anyone. It is no secret that the change from male to female is not exactly inexpensive.

I hope this small contribution will be useful to open the eyes of many people who still do not have adequate information on the subject. God I hope to convey these words to those who really need them.

Love, Sandy

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What is safer sex?

is the way to enjoy sex and prevent the exchange of fluids, such as: blood and semen, which can transmit the AIDS virus. The secret is to not let the semen or blood from another person into your body, not you ever let your semen or blood into the body of another person.

safer sex practices



anal penetration anal penetration without a condom has a high risk of infection.
If you use a condom and it is not broken, there is no risk of contagion. Condoms only break if they are in poor condition or, mostly, if not used correctly. It is therefore essential that the anal sex always use a condom with lubricant, and they also learn to use it properly. Regarding penetration, also keep in mind:

is not true that the only penetration is at risk is being penetrated. Also entering at risk of becoming infected.

is not true that penetrate without a condom and withdraw before cumming is safe. The friction of the foreskin with the anal mucosa may allow passage of the virus. Use the condom throughout intercourse.

Fellatio (sucking)

The risk of contagion in fellatio is if there eyaculacjón but ejaculated the risk is very low. You must take care that the mucosa of the mouth is in good condition. It is advisable to brush your teeth before or after oral sex and, above all, try not to ejaculate or ejaculate you in the mouth. If you want maximum security using a condom, preferably no lubricant (taste better).

Kisses kisses

With no problem. If you have cuts or wounds, you just move the floss or brush your teeth, do not practice deep kissing.

Pats, group masturbation, massage ...
All are safe. The list is as wide as your imagination. It all depends on your creativity and taste to seek and find pleasure and give your sexual partners.

black kiss (suck ass)

In the black kiss, if the mouth is in good condition and there are no injuries to the anus, the risk of AIDS infection is very low. Please note that this form of sex can transmit diseases such as hepatitis. If you want to avoid possible infection, you can use a transparent plastic film or a condom cut in half and spread over the year.

Fist-fucking (anal fist)

If you practice the fist-fucking used latex gloves for single use. Uses lots of water-soluble lubricant. Note that if after the fist-fucking penetration occurs without Presevo, the risk is high.
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prevent semen or blood coming into contact with a wound. If you use a toy that can cause injury, avoid coming into contact with more than one person. Remember to disinfect toys and do not use alcohol for 24 hours. You

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spend as much time as possible between your shaving and sexual contact, if you were injured. Evita

make rectal enema and shower before having a sexual relationship. May weaken the anal mucosa and promote the passage of the virus into the blood.

Dildos are for personal use If you want to share them with your sexual partners, use them coated a condom.

If you have wounds on fingers or hands, ensures that not come into contact with semen or anal mucosa with your partner.

Remember that alcohol, poppers and drugs can alter your ability to make decisions and can take you to practice unsafe sex.

Neither love nor trust in your partner fldelidad will protect you from AIDS. Prevention is always required.

The appearance of your sex partner does not mean anything. Always practice safer sex.

If you have sex with a woman, this information is also valid.

Remember to stop AIDS is everyone's responsibility.
About condoms and lubricants


Condoms should always be used with lubricant. Many condoms are already lubricated, but the oil that is not enough to have anal penetration. Use only water-soluble lubricant (KY, For-Play, Wet ...). Do not use grease or oil lubricants (Vaseline, butter, suntan lotion, hand cream) and spoiling the latex condom.

Check the expiration date of the condom and make sure it meets quality control standards (UNE, RQTs, ISO, ASTM, British Stantandard, AFNOR ...).

models are brands of condoms have different thicknesses. No condom use models thinner or ultra sensitive.

Heat can damage condoms, care must be in good condition and keep them in a dry place, away from sources of heat (in summer do not leave them in the glove compartment).

Condoms are for single use. Use one for each penetration.

not think that by putting two condoms will be more protected. Wear a condom just safer.

watching Al get condoms there are no air pockets. Especially check that no air in the tank designed to contain the semen, while pressing down with fingers unroll the condom over the erect penis. Always carry your

own condoms. It's better than the two you are ready to be none.

If you find it difficult to use condoms with your sex partners, first learns to put it on your own.