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Why you say that you are transsexual?
Can not close the mouth so no one notices?
Are you going to complicate life with what you do in bed?
"You will not be just a sissy! ?
Let me explain ...
reveal why you should prudently our transsexuality
Why do not we stay in the closet and avoid problems
why you should be
ourselves why we should not hide
Truth be told, the value of exit closet is not an issue that many people think. At its deepest level, coming out has nothing to do with being part of a community of transsexuals, is not a matter of changing points of view or theory and is not an issue that motivates us to address socio-cultural changes. We must not forget that we are transsexuals only until the end of the transition and we must be clear that coming out is just a matter of personal worth.
Our culture still spends a sea of \u200b\u200benergy in condemning the differences and being "queer" in particular. From school consistent use of terms like "fags", "butch" and "sex change" create primary currents of opinion and introduce fear and rejection deep in all children. This outrageous scale unimaginable heights up to the present day discriminatory violence affecting almost every aspect of our lives.
is in this toxic environment with varying degrees of condemnation overt and covert, that the transsexual is subjected to constant psychological and emotional attack. This attack is internalized by several degrees from an early age and very easily. The transsexual is not only affected by the avalanche from the outside, but is poisoned from within and accumulating guilt, fears and feelings of self-destruction, which lead to constant pain and in many cases to suicide.
creates a vicious circle is derived cultural pressure, sustained by a state of guilt that is internalized along with the pain and fear, as a cultural message, which becomes part of the consciousness of the transsexual, preventing him from overcoming fear of rejection and self-condemning their needs be herself, hiding. In doing so the tranny reinforces their feelings almost neurotic and attaches to the cultural pressure closing the circle that will be with for life if not broken. Coming out is to stop living in hiding and break the vicious cycle of pressure on our existence
We live in a culture focused on our family and friends, and human interaction. The basis of our daily communication is about of our lives and relationships. The tranny in the closet has only two paths, constantly lying about his life or to avoid any form of human communication that may compromise socially. Over time this causes varying degrees of suffering, is lost from the pleasure of communicating to be loved the joy of living a new day, to tell you something funny that happened or share new experiences. It silenced the simple but significant things of everyday life. This self-censorship destroys the soul and leads to confusion and depression.
When we decided to come out is to tell the world the wonders of being transgender is simply to stop the continuing minimization and cutting of our existence. We left the closet to save the feelings and core values \u200b\u200bof every human being, dignity, self esteem, freedom to talk and share, the freedom to be, the ability to communicate, to communicate about our lives in an honest and real, without subterfuge, without fear of being discovered and shame, just like everyone else. These are the clearest reason to come out.
The raison d'être of this website is that the author decided he was tired and ill shut up, tired of the pain of remaining silent and hiding, worrying endlessly to avoid accidental discoveries about your condition, tired of the constant terror of unforgivable that someone knew my secret all this glut is impossible to bring back, living like a ghost, seeking constant invisibility and self-fulfillment and one half only on the margins of my social environment. All this is over.
have to look at concepts such as, why is unforgivable our "secret"? Why is unforgivable to be transsexual? Why is shameful and frightening?.
Many in our culture and society have serious problems with the fact transsexual. Some people feel very high levels of rejection towards transsexualism, some people do not want to know anything about the subject of transsexuality or understanding and less involved in transsexual's suffering. There are narrow-minded beings who do not accept the fact transsexual coined as a perversion and there are those who would like to see dead to all transsexuals.
fact may have serious consequences for a transsexual audience, but for all transsexual should be clear that, for absolute existential transsexualism produces serious disturbances in the common people, that we put into evidence by a disturbance of the rules fundamental underlying the deepest concepts of being human.
But even considering all the "dangers" cultural and social, there is a point where the cowardice ends and where the car cover and constant depression become unbearable and we need to claim for the rights of freedom enjoyed by other human beings simply the freedom to exist as I am. Coming out
serves to break the vicious cycle of torment and self-condemnation, destroys the necessity of living a lie, is an act of freedom of those who refuses to live in darkness and stands as a person, with the natural and basic right to exist. Is freedom against oppression and as such is not easy and can cost you, but you should get out of the closet to stop the insufferable, self-esteem and achieve a normal human being.
As I said before, we must go out with prudence, not cultural or social cause fractures, but you have to leave, only to find peace and exist, only to be present in this world. Gina
Alva I.
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