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One issue that touches all of us and no doubt where they may have different views. Actually I am very encouraged to write about it because, besides touching me deeply in the network have not found much, nay almost nothing, so momentous point in the life of any human being and therefore of every woman, in this case, transsexual woman.
transsexual women to love is not far from what it is for the majority without however, we usually do not forget our hard early years and the first sacrifice of love that we do. Girls when we realize who we really are and are suspicious of the injury and the disappointment that can lead to the first people who really love our family. We decided to make our first resignation. Very strong because a waiver is to stop being ourselves so that other people feel satisfied and proud of what we are not and do not get hurt, and that, only we do for love ...
then continue with the sacrifice for many years that seem endless, like the other girls see their bodies develop in adolescence and how they can live their femininity with peace and quiet and we, remain silent, for love. Since very children we are aware that it is love that moves the world and learn to give love to give, even knowing that we will not get what we expect.
When transsexual woman manages to take control of their lives and many years may never recover, however, carries this burden on the shoulders and quietly, out of love.
There are many cases like mine, where the lack of information makes us think we can fight against something that is inevitable, we achieved the best performances, because at times we deceive ourselves, and make mistakes. Unfortunately, sometimes there are people leaving wounds in the process, because of our ignorance and that is a burden that we must learn to lead. In these cases it is more difficult to bear the weight of love. To love truth, without restriction and with all our heart as the inquisitive woman social viewpoint and not just judge us away, we branded as selfish when all you want is to live normally and enjoy the beautiful feelings that we can feeling. About
romantic love.
Many people confuse us and have the wrong perspective that a transsexual woman is in itself a friend of promiscuity and / or life easy or dark. Nothing more false. We women usually keep transgender what might be called a "low profile" in our interpersonal relationships as the ideal complement to our change is precisely to achieve not draw attention to what went before, why do strenuous efforts to "go unnoticed." To that, we call it success. For the true transsexual, there is no greater triumph than to achieve a life in communion body-soul-mind in our female role and inserted at 100% in normal community life and our social environment, labor and even family.
Obviously, if you already familiar with the other articles of this page, the brain of every woman transsexual does not differ much (in reality) of the brain biological women, making it is not difficult to assume that our way of seeing any point related to the theme of romantic love, and our feelings, perceptions, thoughts, ambitions, etc. are entitled to nearly the same.
are closely linked to the topic question that I have done more than once and is as follows: the SRS is gravitating in relationship to a transsexual woman?. I think so, and no. How we know, the SRS genital reassignment surgery does not change the sex of the people, but if you correct the disparity body-soul-mind for transsexual women. For a real woman SRS tranny is a solution of life, but that the search for sexual pleasure or function 100% female intimacy, do not forget that the vast majority of transsexuals are celibate and reassigned within the remaining group, as in any human group, there are people who might choose homosexual relationships (meaning, transsexual and biological woman) do not forget that transsexual women have the same range of possibilities that any biological woman in relation to family issues. On the other hand there are a number of transsexuals reassigned to continue to life together with their former wives in his life "masculine" and maintain a relationship that could be considered lesbian or platonic.
There are also transgender women who opt for heterosexual relationship. In my view, a behavior that may be more logical. In many cases, relationships are initiated without the male partner know the truth about the past male and female part that this could lead to the breakup of the relationship and causes fear in many cases, hidden this truth. This would only be possible if women really transsexual absolutely broken with its past.
In other cases it is precisely the male partner who requested and supported the reallocation of transsexual partner, which is an invaluable support for those who will be resigned and would mean that the actual search for both will end communion is achieved when mind-soul-body.
Woman transsexual love and is a person accustomed to give, to give, so it's not hard to love for women like us. Our mind and soul of a woman he loves and dreams in the same way as a biological woman can do.
do we expect from our partners? ... who can receive the love that we offer, like any man / woman (as applicable) receive the love of a woman. You know us to feel that love is worth a woman he loves. We hope to find companionship and a partner of life. Nothing more ...
transsexual woman waiting for her partner only love, Nothing more and nothing less than love, many people confuse us with the easy life lovers may think that our interest does not go beyond to achieve economic stability and family and that is another of the great myths associated with the stability and transgender transsexual women has been forged in years of internal struggle to survive in conditions more severe than the common "good call" normal people, people are accustomed to fighting and stability is usually something that comes with us when we face the world, and we assume say our truth.
is undeniable that most transsexual women lived at first in the most absolute secrecy, and only chose to begin our hormonal treatments reassignment and once we are well established in the world economically independent as it is the only way to achieve better results without having to answer to anyone. It is no secret that the change from male to female is not exactly inexpensive.
I hope this small contribution will be useful to open the eyes of many people who still do not have adequate information on the subject. God I hope to convey these words to those who really need them.
Love, Sandy
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