enigmatic Noun, verb, very practiced
When people hear the word immediately imagine a show of men dressed as women doing imitations of female artists of the time, or drag queens (men who dress as women but vastly exaggerate in their clothing, makeup and shoes, to make parodies of women) or thinking men with female breasts and bodies that come very much in pornography publications such as magazines, Internet and others. But this is not the true concept of a transvestite, he might be related to the topic in some way, but is not itself defined. Let's start by defining
this enigmatic and unknown topic: Crossdressing is the taste and satisfaction that produces a certain dress or individuals to wear clothing typical of the opposite sex, and can be male or female.
The transvestite man is the most commonly observed and judged, branded him a fag, homosexual, effeminate, little man, we doubt his masculinity and say or think about many things that are not necessarily related to the topic. In contrast, in women not observe or rarely detected, since women tend to wear unisex, ie, wear clothes of the two sexes. Used men's clothing, pants, shirts, bags, shoes and even ties, and can be combined with skirts, shoes and blouses, making it look feminine, stylish, and although we see a real facade made trousers, boots and shirts too male dominated industry, not the judge as to men, as we see it as an everyday and normal.
The individual is a transvestite does not tell us anything about his sexual preference, nor of his manhood, less of their social or psychological profile. There transvestites as distinct individuals in the world there are from children, youth, single adults, married, old and all possible classes.
Transvestism is a pleasure that comes from birth. It's like a love of football, music or dance is brought from small but we discovered in some stage of life, but it would be wrong to ensure that liked football, we like beer. Therefore we can not relate to transvestism to sexual preference or anything else as there are heterosexual transvestites, bisexuals, gays, singles, married, girlfriend, divorce, doctors, lawyers, engineers, technicians, prostitutes, students, parents, brothers , friends, etc, etc, etc. All kinds of individuals who live and develop in various countries and societies around the world.
Usually we do not know when an individual is or is not a transvestite, but until we discover or observe, when they talk about his taste us or when we learned by others, but this is even more difficult.
And Why live in hiding or in the closet (as stated in the gay or transvestite) if there is anything wrong? Easy question to answer: In our society, the problem is in your way of thinking, customs, their fears, their prejudices, their ignorance on the subject, in their insecurity and other factors that limit so many people to open up to other flavors or behaviors different from theirs.
What has gotten the man when he tried to eradicate any kind of race, behavior, thinking, knowledge, or religion? Only dropped one or more steps of that great ladder call history, plus the shedding of many liters of blood without any sense. But did not always go away at some of these items forever, but on the contrary, many more were strengthened and many others became part of everyday life for most people. And all because of wanting to impose a standard that few wanted, without respecting the diversity of ways of acting and thinking that we have human beings.
God made us free and we can not force the others to like the same thing to me just because I'm a government authority, religion, or because I feel that he or she, must respect the tastes and practices of others, and if we ask why these practices or tastes, surely learn a lot and understand that person better, but not share their tastes and we disagree with their behavior.
In the world there are millions and millions of transvestites, each experiencing different things and situations, and many other very similar, probably one with more experience than others with different ages, some with people who support and other solos, some with money to buy her wardrobe and other complying with what they find among their families, some with great confidence to go out and do activities like any other lady and others with so little that they do not leave a room or your imagination; one with much knowledge about this phenomenon, others as ignorant who feel it is a punishment from God.
The truth is it takes a lot of education, information or distribution of this information, to make live in peace and harmony with each other. And we start with our families, teaching our children, spouses, siblings, parents and friends to respect all their friends and relatives, to learn from them and teach them what they need or need to know, to not judge them because we are all equal ( human beings who love and are loved), to show the beauty of freedom and respect of others, to walk at a steady pace without throwing or stepping on others to be better or get faster, and to be happy making people happy around us.
And speaking of information, we must learn what are transsexuals, to learn to differentiate them from transvestites:
A transsexual is basically a person who feels trapped in a body that does not identify mentally and spiritually think that nature is wrong to assign the body and makes every effort to transform it into one you feel most comfortable. And that's where they begin to seek psychological help and go to doctors or specialists, to begin a process of hormonización and have the potential monetary made breast implants (in men) or removing them (women) to finish with reassignment surgery of the genitalia.
is in the process when pre-operative transsexual men and women can be seen with a penis or men with breasts and feminine forms, many morbid image to promote the concept of pornography transvestites, not having investigated before the true definition of transvestite , thus leading to the misinformation and confusion of the consumers of those products (which, unfortunately, are many).
A transsexual is an individual who suffers enough about their situation, and even more so when they have the support of loved ones or with money to finance the costly process of hormonización and reassignment. And it's harder when society makes life more impossible still.
Unlike transsexuals, transvestites, sex change not think or feel trapped in a body that is not theirs, for they like to enjoy the best of both worlds, like to be men when they are dressed well or when they perform their daily work, and feel very feminine when transformed.
Many transvestites have had the courage and the confidence to talk about their "taste" their partners and families, a lot has gone well, others not so much and others very bad. But encouraged to take this step, you must first they have the information and knowledge necessary to accept themselves and have the confidence and trust to share with a loved one, and in due course to teach or inform that person cross-dressing means and what it means or what ties this enigmatic subject.
Those who trusted in the love that one day joined his partner and that has made them stay together until today, those who know that trust is the basis for the optimal functioning of the couple, and that the secrets become a time bomb unstoppable, always explodes when least expected; are those who lead a life without fear, no worries and certainly are enjoying and sharing his passion and much happiness with their partners.
is very satisfying to see how the wives (intelligent) do not feel they have lost a male, but on the contrary, they have won a man more attentive and affectionate with them and a true friend when it is processed. And they should understand that their man was already know transvestite before and thanks to that like his personality developed certain virtues or characteristics on which they were set to fall in love, precisely because of them.
And this is how the couple reached agreements to practice your husband happy at certain times or places and evolve as he wishes, so that in future not be frustrated or dissatisfied with the life he has led. At the same time, this trust gives the couple the opportunity to share and make fantasies, dreams or desires that satisfy both, but only if both agree to do them.
However, when the wives or relatives refuse to accept the taste of her husband or by female clothing transvestite, manage various reactions are not so good in the individual, such as: frustration, unhappiness, secrets, lies, rancor that look of happiness and hidden elsewhere, or with others, to try to forget your taste, pulling her clothes away, visiting psychologists (not always knowledgeable on the subject) or resist the urge to dress, but in a not too distant future you will see that he could not leave and will feel even more evil and full of sadness and frustration.
And we must remember that transvestism is like taking a jacket for pleasure or on orders from somebody to not ever use it, since it is a bit more complicated than that. This will taste only when we lose interest in it in a completely spontaneous or due to no longer see it as a pleasure, but as an obligation that no longer gives us satisfaction.
So after reading all this text and have learned little or enough on this subject, I can only advise them to open their minds to the wide range of possibilities, preferences, individuals and groups that exist in our world, to live in harmony and a happier way.
transvestite Believe me, being accepted by your partner, family or friends, it becomes a happy person, happy and grateful to God and to those people who accept it as is and let him enjoy the taste that makes you great satisfaction. A taste that can be shared very well with women and which can learn a lot about makeup, fashion, behavior, hairstyles, accessories and so much to handle in their daily world is most certainly share a taste for shopping at malls without being rushed or pressured, just the opposite: they advise, encourage and fully enjoy this time (unlike many men, who hate to walk from store to store looking and waiting their partners or relatives who like to test everything).
Anyway I hope that this text or trial has achieved its main objective, which was or is to inform and teach the true concept of transvestism, that people will see it as a common practice that harms no one to do it, but the transvestite needed to support it and understand it, or at least not insult or hurt, simply because they have a distinct taste others, and of which little is known.
his friend. Ingrid Rincón Islands
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